simpNF should use dsimp for lemmas proved by rfl

[digama0]

The @[simp] attribute is used by both simp and dsimp, so it is possible for a rfl lemma to have a proof by simp but not one by dsimp, and so this is a false positive. The linter should check if the current declaration is a rfl lemma and if so restrict its attention to dsimp proofs.

[semorrison]

I've just updated the links in mathlib4 pointing to mathlib4#5081 to point to this issue instead.

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