Support ControlMessage output in the C++ impl of DeserializeStage

[dagardner-nv]

Description

• C++ impl of DeserializeStage now templates the output message type
• Add the ability to cast a Python instance of a MessageMeta to the C++ instance of MessageMeta. This removes the need to explicitly import the C++ impl of MessageMeta in order to set the payload of a ControMessage.
• Use C++ mode by default for LLM examples
• Support cudf DataFrames for both WebScraperStage and RSSController
• utility method show_warning_message now marked visible in lib
• Move tests/test_deserialize_stage_pipe.py -> tests/stages/test_deserialize_stage_pipe.py & tests/test_message_meta.py -> tests/messages/test_message_meta.py
• Update docstrings

Closes #1328
Closes #1480
Closes #1481
Closes #1342

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[drobison00]

Looks good, although I would like to hold off until the vdb_upload PR goes in.

[mdemoret-nv]

/merge