[cmake] Add ninja support for Windows #10600

Job	Run time
Windows 10 x64 Release	55m 24s
Windows 10 x86 Release	53m 50s
fedora39 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=20	1h 17m 7s
alma8 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On	1h 6m 22s
mac13 ARM64 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, builtin_zlib=ON	30m 7s
alma9 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug	1h 32m 53s
mac14 ARM64 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=20	29m 31s
Upload Event Payload	2s
mac-beta ARM64 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=20	26m 38s
ubuntu20 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On	1h 14m 10s
ubuntu22 imt=Off, LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug	2h 22m 38s
ubuntu2404 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug	1h 37m 48s
debian125 LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=20	1h 17m 25s
alma9 modules_off runtime_cxxmodules=Off	1h 4m 11s
alma9 march_native CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=RelWithDebInfo, CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS=-march=native, CMAKE_C_FLAGS=-march=native, fortran=OFF	1h 8m 16s
alma9-clang clang LLVM_ENABLE_ASSERTIONS=On, CMAKE_C_COMPILER=clang, CMAKE_CXX_COMPILER=clang++	1h 1m 59s
	16h 58m 21s

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